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THE BEST FOR YOUR FAMILY (Is not coming from you)

Men say, ‘I want the best’ for my family.

But they model mediocrity.

If you want ‘the best’ for your family, this will actually start and end with you.

How can they even have a chance for the ‘best’, with the leadership you’re currently providing?
~Spiritually: Stagnant
~Relationally: Stale
~Physically: Soft
~Financially: Stuck or Status Quo

They will rise to the level you’re setting.

So the levels you’re producing are the Bars that you are setting.

You’re quite a way off from the ‘Best’ aren’t you?

Hurts a little doesn’t it?

Good, it’s supposed to.

Especially if you’re producing sh*t results in life.

Here’s another one for you:
‘Do as I say, not as I do’

How many times have you said that?

That’s a loser statement if I’ve ever heard one.

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

Is this your leadership/parenting approach?

Setting a poor example over and over yet expecting a different result from your children?

My friend, that’s insanity.

And I get it.

I was this way for so long.

Average Dad at best for a long time….and many times, far worse.

Men like to talk about it.

Rather than Be about it.

If you want them to Heed it, you have to Lead it.

You don’t even believe what you tell them and demand of them.

And it’s easy to see if you’re leading it or not.

Just look at your results.

Dads, if you want the best for them, they need to SEE the best from you.

Actually more than that, they need to see your RESULTS from living out what you truly believe.

If you want the best for them, BE the best for them.

Not just in One area of life…

They need more from you than just you being a provider.

They need you to step up and lead in all areas of life.

They need your Best, so they can follow in your path.

If you’re a Husband/Father who’s struggling to be the Man that you need to be for your family and you know this is no longer acceptable, Message Me, it’s time for you to step up.

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